So, the
vote is no. Which doesn't close down the debate and allow us to get on with
other things, but simply condemns us all to another 5-10 years of working on
this. I am stunned that anyone, whatever their views on women bishops, could
feel that is a good use of our time and energy in the next decade.
I suspect some of those who voted against are similarly stunned. From the looks on some faces, and brief conversations as we left, I get the impression that some - probably more than 6 - wanted to register a protest but hadn't expected it to mean the measure would fall. If so, they badly miscalculated. The damage this has done, and will continue to do, to the reputation and moral authority of the Church of England is very great.
Top quote
of the day - not for offensiveness, but for sheer open- mouthed incredulity
that anyone would even think of saying this, was 'Of course, women aren't just
there to make the tea. Though that is an important aspect of diaconal
ministry'.
But the
Church if England does not believe that. So please, please, can we start having
this sort of damaging nonsense challenged by the men in authority, not pandered
to? Such speeches should not have been tolerated by the Chair. They should have
been rebutted by the bishops. Instead, people fell over themselves to offer
reassurances that those with these views would be 'protected' from women
bishops who clearly can't be trusted to behave as bishops and pastor their
flock.
We need
to grow up and use the Bible maturely, and not be bullied into agreeing that
any quotation can be applied directly to our own context, or that any
interpretation is valid because it is 'my deeply held theological conviction'.
I know this applies to all of us. I know it is messier than pretended
certainties. But it is also more honest.
The
gloves came off in this debate. Opponents have generally tried to be polite about women in recent
years, realising that blatant rudeness damages their cause. But the ugly
attitudes and damaging beliefs about women have not gone away, and they
surfaced yesterday. Speaker after speaker against the motion grounded their
opposition to this measure in a view of sex and gender that sees male and
female as irreconcilably different and unequal. One is more godly than the
other. One is destined to be in charge. 'Equal but different' was the rallying
cry, but the difference was spelled out as one being in leadership and the
other not. What value does the word 'equal' have here?
And, of
course, the elephant in the room was homosexuality. Because those opposed
implacably to women having authority rightly fear that if they give ground on
the essential difference of the sexes, they undermine what coherence there is
to their arguments in support of their visceral distaste for same sex
relationships.
Those
opposed from a 'conservative evangelical' perspective (redefined, as Elaine
Storkey pointed out, to mean you are only a conservative evangelical if you
believe in male headship) complained that they couldn't trust the legislation
as there were no conservative evangelical bishops. Two points on that. Firstly,
if you define your constituency so narrowly as to exclude anyone who would be
able to work respectfully with ministers of other views, thinking they don't
believe the Bible, then of course they can't become bishops. Secondly, I refer
you to my previous blog post entitled 'Pick your own bishop'. This legislation
would have guaranteed any parish a male bishop if that is what they demanded.
It could not and should not guarantee everyone a bishop who agrees with them.
I am left
feeling rejected by the Church that accepted me for ministry. Among all the
talk of promises and assurances, what price the promise in my ordination, that
the Church believed I was called to this ministry and that it had the authority
to ordain me? It is all very well to say that we want to go forward together,
but that was the offer yesterday and it has been ripped up and thrown in our
faces.
So why
not resign?
Secondly,
I think back to the Minster service during Synod in July. The first reading was
from Ezekiel 2. There were several wry smiles as the prophet repeatedly spoke
of a 'rebellious house'. But the words that spoke directly to me were: 'I am
sending you to them, and you shall say to them, ‘Thus
says the Lord God.’ Whether they hear or refuse
to hear (for they are a rebellious house), they shall know that there has been
a prophet among them.' All we can each do is say what we are given to say, do
what we are called to do. I need to remember that success or failure is not up
to me. I trust God won't judge me on whether I manage to get the whole Church
to agree with me.
Thirdly,
of course, my parish. I have a job to do here, people to love and serve. People
to baptise, marry, bury, teach, celebrate communion with, pray with and for. I
owe it to them not to walk out on them.
And so we
go on.
